Quoting: vmelo
Clifford, I had to chuckle at your sarcasm-laced post that claims that I'm reviving the "animosity."
Your post was 20 days after the last on subject post not counting a post made on the 14th that no one responded to and, at that point, everyone had parted ways agreeing to disagree but in fairly positive terms. You went right into a rant about how wrong we all are for disagreeing at all and that "eating smart and exercise" doesn't work. At what point does offering contrasting information become "naysaying"? It's not as if anyone was saying "ur stupid and i hope you fail!" at the end
You also overlooked the fact that several of us had even explicitly said that we were stating contrary opinions because we want everyone to succeed and were offering our input to help and inform, wrong as we may be, and that we'd genuinely love to be proven wrong since that would mean success for the rotation diet fans. Yeap, I'd say the thread necromancy and negativity here is your handiwork.
Quoting: vmelo
In short, you're advocating a solution that many have tried and that hasn't worked for most. Do you see what I mean?
It's hardly a fair trial if you give up on it, especially since the big part of it that people give up on is the longterm part which is the important part, and if you give up on that then I would say you're not really trying it at all. If you had lost the weight and continued eating healthy and exercising and put the weight back on, your argument MIGHT have legs to stand on, but as it is, you didn't so you don't. That'd be like someone saying "saving money doesn't work, I'm still broke" because they put money in the bank for a month, then spent it all; you're missing the point completely if you stop and splurge.
The fact is that we're not advocating "eating right and exercise" as a short term means to the goal of "looking good in bikini season", we're saying that if a person makes it a lifelong commitment to being healthier and looking better year-round, rather than looking better for 2-3 months out of the year, that "eating right and exercise" and building that into a LIFELONG HABIT is the smart way to go.
Hell, even if you want to use the short-term goal as the basis of your argument, which you're doing, you've already conceded that you've lost the weight at least three times now by doing it, and yet you didn't keep it off: you weren't able to commit to a pattern of healthier living and eating when you already made yourself live that way for a short period of time, what makes you think that if you do something completely different that DOESN'T encourage a healthy MAINTAINABLE (keyword there) pattern of eating and living that you'll suddenly magically be able to flip a switch and make it stick this time, when you make the jump from the rotation diet/atkins/low-carb/lemonade dieting to wanting keep it off this time?
The problem with any of these diets is that they don't build healthy HABITS so when they end, so does any perceived health benefits. Clearly, in the past you weren't able to build healthy HABITS into a lifestyle change, and I'll honestly be surprised (in a good way) if you manage it this time, since you won't even be doing it leading up to your "goal".
Quoting: vmelo
You know that old definition of insanity: trying the same thing over and over again and hoping for a different result.
Like you said, a bigger part of the equation for success in ANYTHING, dieting included, is going to be mental. If you don't change your attitude towards what you want to achieve, then the HOW is completely irrelevant, and by embracing a different dieting mechanism to try to lose weight you're not necessarily addressing the mental aspects, since you've ALREADY lost the weight in the past; in essence you've just found a different square peg for the same round hole.
You're simply looking for, and taking, a shortcut to get where you think you want to be, then HOPING that once you're there you can make the mental adjustments to change, but once you're there you're going to lose the benefit of having a goal to aim for, so finding inspiration to change and maintain that change will be difficult. You've got to start by fixing what was wrong in the past, or else you're just embarking down the road to insanity.
Quoting: vmelo
if someone can get motivation by losing a good bit of weight in three weeks, that might work better than losing that 1/2 lb--1 lb. a week and then feeling lousy about yourself each day you look in the mirror because you're not seeing the results that you think you should see for all the sacrifice your doing.
No matter how hard or how fast you lose the weight, naturally, you're not going to see suddeny dramatic changes in the mirror. Even if you lose 3lbs a week (which is about the rate I lost my weight at and, based on my own experience/experimentation, the fastest I could have lost weight without sacrificing significant muscle), your reflection in the mirror isn't going to change overnight... hell it's pretty subtle in the weekly photos until you look at week 1 compared to the current photo.
You can tell a lot about a persons mindset by their choice of words and, as much as we'd all like to see results yesterday, you have to accept that there is no magic bullet to make the fat melt away quickly. If "super fast results" is what you're looking for to find motivation, you're going to be looking for long time... time that you could easily spend building those healthy habits into a lifestyle. There is no easy way out of it, once you fall into this hole the only way out is to bear down and climb, and as long as you keep looking for the shortcuts and easy solutions, you're only setting yourself up for another fall. It is going to take time and work to get the results you want. Until you can accept that and realize that, you probably are going to struggle with the gain/loss rollercoaster for a long time, and until you stop seeing "eating healthy and exercise" as a "sacrifice", I can gaurantee that you'll be putting the weight right back on.
Bottom line is this: if you don't have the mental fortitude to commit to eating healthy, being healthy and living healthy, then you will NOT be healthy. If losing weight and being healthy is only a short term goal for you and shorcuts are how you want to achieve that, then you're going to be having this discussion again with someone else, whether it's here, on another website or in real life.