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THE NEW ME
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 04:28


so recently my nutritionist upped my calories and changed my meal plan and ive been exploring a variety of foods. so tonight i went to wholefoods and decided to try a meal recommended by my nutritionist. it was a large meal. i am not trying to lose weight. i am trying to gain muscle and i workout frequently. anyway, as i am enjoying my dinner a woman comes up to me and says "wow, that is alot of food you are eating. what a big piece of lasagna!" i responded "yes, it is." she just ruined my entire meal. why do people care/comment? yes, i did finish the whole meal, by the way.
what do you think i should have said to this "%%%&&**? she really pissed me off! lol. im over it now.


Samantha Cordell
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 04:35




What..you didn't b*tch slap her??? hehe...

How annoying

Sorry she ruined your meal!


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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 04:39


believe me i wanted to. then she started to stretch her legs across her cart. it was very strange. i was thinking lady, this is not a gym!!


tex girlee
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 05:24


lol. im with samantha, you should hav b*tch slapped her! dont let her ruin your delicious meal. yumm, lasagna...

tex


Cardio King
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 06:02


I'm all for the slapping.


Glovia L
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 06:55


Jen, take it as compliment. If I were you, I would say thanks. And then pointing to my body said I can handle it and I have room for them.


Clifford Chinn
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 07:04


Quoting: malibublue
If I were you, I would say thanks. And then pointing to my body said I can handle it and I have room for them.


Quoted for truth.

People who make comments like that tend to be insecure and are trying to bring you down, in my opinion, the best thing you can do to someone like flip it on them and show them how it doesn't bother you.


Spyke M
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 07:26


I can't wait until I've lost my weight - A big lasagna sounds sooo good!

On the other hand, my recipe for lasagna should probably be mentioned on the "20 worst foods" list. Human beings weren't meant to eat so much cheese!

Oh yeah, did I mention that cheese is my FAVOURITE sin? Some of the other 7 deadly ones figure high on the list too, but cheese gluttony...


Mindy Lu
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 08:07


spyke, cheese is my favorite too! it's so hard to resist...considering mac 'n' cheese is my ultimate FAVORITE food of all time.


Cardio King
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 08:09


Mmmm....mac 'n cheese...

*drools on keyboard*


Minu ~
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 10:00


Jen,

When I was into lifting back in the day, and I'd be out chowin' down with a buddy and someone would make a comment like that, even if it was with a smile, I'd just make a bicep twitch, or my pecs jump up and say, "In training", with an eyebrow raise and that always shut 'em down.

Got 'em thinking too sometimes too.

ENJOY THE FEEDINGS!



Dean Grimshawe
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 10:45


Quoting: jenngetfit
wow, that is alot of food you are eating


Quoting: jenngetfit
what do you think i should have said to this


Yes it is! But then I can get away with it cos unlike me you've got a lot of ass!!

Maybe thats not the best thing to say but it would have been amusing for a second.

At the end of the day if you want high performance you need a lot of the right fuel. You'll find these same people in 6 months time looking across and asking for more of what she's having.


Minu ~
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 10:49


Quoting: jenngetfit
believe me i wanted to. then she started to stretch her legs across her cart. it was very strange. i was thinking lady, this is not a gym!!


Hilarious! She was posturing--like our dear apey cousins.

Some folks are so transperant.


Angie H
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 14:32


Simply put, that was quite rude of her.


Rob M
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 14:37


My wife made a 4-cheese mac n cheese last weekend. It was heavenly.


Derek Schultz
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 14:42


Quoting: jenngetfit
then she started to stretch her legs across her cart. it was very strange. i was thinking lady, this is not a gym!!


She probably didn't mean to do any posturing, she was maybe just airing out.


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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 15:09


thanks everyone!! you made me laugh and feel a bit better. i realized i dont need to defend myself. i know im doing the right things. the lady was out of place and thats that. i will go back there again and have another dinner just like that again (not tonight though!)


Jericho Kane
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 15:53


Quoting: jenngetfit
"wow, that is alot of food you are eating. what a big piece of lasagna!"


That should be a point of pride to you, not an insult. You're eating to fuel yourself up for the self-inflicted beat down you're going to give yourself at the gym, so who cares if some random comes up to you and comments on your eating habits?


Cindy N
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 16:13


Quoting: wayofthewarrior

Yes it is! But then I can get away with it cos unlike me you've got a lot of ass!!


Along the same line, I was going to suggest she nonchalantly say, "Yeah, I can eat whatever I want and don't gain a pound!"


Angie H
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 18:01


Quoting: Cynthesis
Along the same line, I was going to suggest she nonchalantly say, "Yeah, I can eat whatever I want and don't gain a pound!"



That was my first thought too! "Yeah, I eat like a pig and I have this great body. Geez, I'm just so lucky. I'm guessing the reason you look like that is because you can't eat this? "


Drew Bates
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 19:39


Perhaps she was jealous that you're able to eat a real meal.

Sometimes people say stupid, stupid things. Don't take things to heart that a stranger says.


Rachael M
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 20:24


Sorry she ruined your meal, Jenn!! I am one of those people who probably comments too much too (not to random strangers so much in restaurants, but still) so not to defend her, but she probably didn't even think of it as a cut down. It may have been more of a Captain Obvious kind of thing. You should go back and eat it again with pride!


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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 21:00


thanks again everyone. i appreciate it. im trying not to take what everyone says to heart. who is this woman anyway? she means nothing to me?!! im glad i can eat foods i enjoy in moderation and i maintain my weight but i also know how hard i work in the gym (but i dont need to explain that to starngers). it reminds of the time i saw a lady in the gym who said to me-all you do is ride the bike so slowly (she happened to have seen me on a lighter workout day but i didnt tell her that)and you lose weight and i workout so hard and cant lose anything. meanwhile, she has no clue what i do on the other days or behind the scenes. then when she asked for advice as to what my routine was she was in total disagreement of using a heart rate monitor etc. sometimes you just have to laugh i guess although it is pretty sad.


Drew Bates
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 21:27


yeah as far as you've come, you should probably be giving them pointers. 'Dirt off your shoulder' as the cool kids say.


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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 23:44


thanks drew!!! )))


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