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Angie H
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# Posted: 27 May 2008 17:51



I'm the one on the left. This is about the only one I can stand to look at for more than a second. What made this photo opportunity even more spectacular is the fact that I got sunburned the day before and had a very nice farmer tan going (which I covered with makeup as much as possible). The groom is 6'4", and the other bridesmaid about 5'0". I split the difference between them, haha.

For reference, in the pic I am 5'8", about 183 lbs, somewhere between 33-36% body fat (depending on the calculator). The dress is a size 14 that was taken up about 2" in the torso. Thank God I managed to lose about 20 lbs. The Maid of Honor is about 5'0", 150 lbs, also in a highly altered size 14 (probably could have been wearing a 12 easily). We were both working on losing weight for this damned wedding!

[Rant] Why oh why does everyone want to take a 3/4 front/side view pic of you? If you have curves they do NOT show up, and you look like a waist-less fatty. Probably the only reason I like this pic so much better than the others I looked through is because it was the only one with a more frontal view. In the 3/4 view pics I look like I have no figure at all. [End Rant]


Dave Nicholson
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# Posted: 27 May 2008 18:21


You look great - imagine if you were smiling!!


Ryan F
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# Posted: 27 May 2008 18:22


Don't be so hard on yourself, you look great. I'm sure you look fine in the other pics, too.

That is a funny observation about the angled front/side views though .


Rachael M
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# Posted: 27 May 2008 18:23


You look great Angie! I mean, I smile wouldn't have hurt anything, but really, you're looking hot!


Angie H
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# Posted: 27 May 2008 19:20


Yeah, unfortunately the ones where I am smiling look stupid to me, hahaha. I look totally fake. Plus I look about 50 lbs heavier because of the damned 3/4 view pose they always put me in. I'm sure in the professional version of this pic (the person we're looking at) I will look like a fat cow. This one isn't sooo bad though.


Clifford Chinn
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# Posted: 28 May 2008 01:05


Quoting: fauxvirgo
[Rant] Why oh why does everyone want to take a 3/4 front/side view pic of you? If you have curves they do NOT show up, and you look like a waist-less fatty. Probably the only reason I like this pic so much better than the others I looked through is because it was the only one with a more frontal view. In the 3/4 view pics I look like I have no figure at all. [End Rant]


Yeah, I hate it when my curves don't show up in pictures...

You look great, and think about how far you've come! Besides, we're always our own worst critics (unless you have a family like mine... I think it's pretty hard to beat their criticisms).


Itadaki Mouse
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# Posted: 28 May 2008 04:08


I was always told the 3/4 view made you look thinner.

There's always Gimpshop!


THE NEW ME
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# Posted: 28 May 2008 12:54


nice pic angie!! when was it taken? were you happy with the way you looked in the pic (besides the angle?)? i hope so!! pretty dress too.


jann griffiths
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# Posted: 28 May 2008 13:27


Angie,

You really look nice in this picture. I was surprised when I read you were 183 lbs, I would have thought you were a lot less.


Angie H
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# Posted: 28 May 2008 13:56


The problem with the 3/4 view is that the curve of your waist isn't visible. What you are left seeing is the fat side of your hip and boob! So, when your best asset is not visible (waist), and your gargantuan hips and boobs ARE, the end result is a picture that makes you look like a shapeless fatty. Another annoying thing in wedding pictures is that darned bouquet, which they want you to hold at your waist (and again hiding an asset, since these gowns do a terrific job of cinching it up and giving you an hourglass figure!) I'm not saying I don't like this pic; I'm just ranting that this is the only picture that was taken that shows a more frontal view, and all the others are 3/4 views.

Seriously, both me and the other bridesmaid are wearing the same size dress. She is in a 3/4 view, and I am not. THAT is what I'm trying to describe! Damn photographers, hahaha.


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# Posted: 28 May 2008 14:34


so you are saying you dont like the pic? i dont think a dress/angle/flowers can hide that much!? i think you look great but the bottomline is if you arent happy with yourself than that is what is most important. 2 people can wear the same size and weigh the same amt or diff amt or be diff heights and/or weights. it really doesnt matter what size you are (you could be 3 different sizes if you get your clothes at 3 different stores) or what the scale says (as we all know muscle weighs more than fat so you will be a smaller size at a heavier weight). it is what you are comfortable with and how you feel.


Angie H
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# Posted: 28 May 2008 15:09


Quoting: jenngetfit
so you are saying you dont like the pic?

Quoting: fauxvirgo
I'm not saying I don't like this pic



When I get my hands on some more pics, I'll post them.

Anyway, thanks for all your comments. No, I'm not comfortable with my weight; not by a long shot. I still have at least 30 more lbs to lose. This is the only picture I've had taken since I started losing weight. My mother in law took pics of me at Christmas that I can't stand looking at, and, yes I think I can tell a difference between now and then. But you guys haven't seen any recent pics of me, so here 'ya go!

Quoting: jenngetfit
i dont think a dress/angle/flowers can hide that much!?

I think it can!


Angie H
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# Posted: 28 May 2008 15:19 - Edited by: fauxvirgo


Here's the lovely 3/4 view. Ugh. Granted, I'm not standing up as straight, but you get the picture anyway.
<a href="http://ablog.jerryandangie.com/__oneclick_up loads/2008/05/fatangie-medium.JPG" target="_blank" rel="lightbox"> <img src="http://ablog.jerryandangie.com/__oneclick_upl oads/2008/05/fatangie-medium.JPG" alt="" style="width:150px" /></a>


Ryan F
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# Posted: 29 May 2008 18:27


Ok, you're right. That picture doesn't do you justice .

I wouldn't fret over it too much, though. Keep up the good work and you'll reach your goal. Sure, it may be a bit later than you had hoped, but when you look back it really won't matter because you'll be where you want to be right now .


Rachael M
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# Posted: 29 May 2008 19:08


Your link got broken.



And I knew what you were saying before, but yeah, that is a good demonstration of the 3/4 view = not so good for us curvier gals.


Rachael M
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# Posted: 29 May 2008 19:09


Also, maybe you are "sucking it in" more in the front view...?


Angie H
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# Posted: 29 May 2008 20:47


Quoting: rach_1623
Also, maybe you are "sucking it in" more in the front view...?


Don't think so, just standing up a little straighter. I had on some pretty restrictive undergarments, heh... breathing deeply was a bit of a challenge! There was NO WAY anything was hanging out, LOL.


Cynthia P
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# Posted: 29 May 2008 21:11


I think you look great!

Now that the wedding is over, just keep focusing on your goals and next pictures, you'll be even better!


THE NEW ME
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# Posted: 30 May 2008 09:42


i agree with cynthia!! but obviously you have to feel comfortable with yourself.


Kat W
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# Posted: 3 Jun 2008 04:45


You look so skinny! =) Could def used a smile tho yes.

I'm a photographer tho and can def understand and see the pains of bad vs good angels..


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