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Jeff Bristow
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:33


This morning when I woke up my wife had a gift bag for me that she was really excited for me to open.

When I opened the bag there was a pen box in it. I thought "Doesn't she know that I lose pens?" When I opened the box there was no pen, but a pregnancy test showing positive!

So, I am a Daddy!

I then had to head to work since I don't give myself much time from wake up to walking into work.

My wife and I have a lot of thinking and talking to do this evening. We are also expecting to hear from DCF this week to see if we have been approved to adopt, so we need to decide whether we want to continue the adoption process. We were never interested in adoption due to fertility issues, so we may end up with a much larger family by the end of the year.


Dave Nicholson
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:35


Wow, Congratulations!!!! That's awesome, good luck Daddy


THE NEW ME
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:36


congrats jeff!!!


~ Linaeve
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:42


Congratulations!!! That's so exciting!


Dean Grimshawe
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:46


I'm really pleased for you Jeff!!


Cindy N
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:58


Congratulations! I'm sure you and your wife will work everything out for the best. I wish her a happy, healthy pregnancy!


Cardio King
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 19:02


Amazing news Jeff! Congratulations to you both!


Brandon B.
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 19:36


Your story just made my day. Congrats man.


suesue t
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:06


Congratulations!!!! that is so exciting...... I know you have had a rough road these past couple of weeks. 9 months will pass quickly and you will soon have those pitter pattering feet! A newborn at Christmas....... wow!


Rachael M
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:18


Congratulations Jeff!!!! That's awesome!!


Barbara Yero
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:19


Quoting: spaggard
Your story just made my day. Congrats man.


me too! congratulations, enjoy the ride


Itadaki Mouse
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:47


What? Married people have sex? Mine's broken. Refund!

That was a really sweet way to tell you. Congratulations on the baby and a clever, thoughtful wife!


Stacy F
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:57


Goaaaaaaal you finally got one past the goalie, Congrats dude. Nothing better than being a dad.


Kathy O
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 21:47


Been there and after all that waiting I really appreciate what you are feeling...It is a feeling beyond description. Congratulations!


Sher S
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 22:03


Congrats Jeff...best wishes to you and your FAMILY


Angie H
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 22:04


Wow, I hope you and your wife have a healthy, happy pregnancy and a bouncing baby in 9 months! Congratulations!!!!


Sven Wii
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 00:18


What a nice gift bag, grats man

all the best to you three ^^


Tara C
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 00:40


Babies!! Congratulations!


Richie Anderson
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 02:10


Awesome! Congrats! You'll love being a daddy, its great!


Ara Bruno
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 02:23


Congrats man I am really really happy for you. I was worried about you and your wife and the adoption process. This was a good surprise for you.


Tim Wilson
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 02:52


Congrats! That is awesome news! I bet you are on cloud 9 right now!


tHe SbAsTiAn pRoJeCt
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 05:00


WOW .. congratulations jeff, that's the best news you could ever have !!! trust you'll love being a dad.. there's something so rewarding...anyways you'll see. Congratultions to your wife-girlfriend too !


tex girlee
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 05:35


omg! conratulations! how exciting. i wish you the best of luck. that really just put a smile on my face for some reason! ;)

tex


Samantha Cordell
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 06:23


WOW big CONGRATS to you and your wife Jeff....how exciting~~~!!!


Colin Barnes
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 12:42


he shoots, he scores! Well done fella.


Jeff Bristow
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 13:29


Thanks everyone. I am really excited right now. Our parents are really excited too!

We are a bit divided now as to if we should proceed with adopting. My wife's family doesn't want us to adopt now, but my family is really excited for us to follow through with adopting. And I am leaning towards adopting still and my wife just isn't sure. So, we still need to figure out the adoption stuff.

Thanks again everyone.


Angie H
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 14:14


Jeff, the pregnancy obviously will put a monkey wrench in ANY plans. Personally, I could see how one might become a bit overwhelmed if a baby AND an adopted child come into your life at the same time. Give yourself some breathing room and the option to make a decision after things have calmed down a bit.

And, I wouldn't give a second's thought to what parents might say. It's your and your wife's decision, not theirs!


suesue t
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# Posted: 22 Mar 2008 03:01


Quoting: jeffbristow
So, we still need to figure out the adoption stuff.

The adoption agency you are working with might have a policy and take the decision out of your hands. Your social worker might be really helpful too! Maybe you could just be placed "inactive", but not forgo all the hard work you have put into the process. ..... that way, you can put off the stress of the "any day a phone call could come"


Jeff Bristow
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 18:32 - Edited by: jeffbristow


Today the State of Florida essentially requested an extension to process our adoption application since they exceeded their legal time frame to let us know. So we have to wait another 16 days at a minimum to find out about that.

I expected this set back to happen. Working with the State has been this way. And this isn't all bad since this will give us some more time to think about what we would like to do. The approval of our home study simply makes us eligible to adopt a child that is in the custody of the State of Florida and doesn't actually place a child with us, so once we are approved we will be in a better position to see if the children we are hoping to adopt will be available which will help guide our decision.


Ara Bruno
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 19:05


Good luck on your decision Jeff!


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