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Jeff Bristow
Fitness Guru Posts: 280
Jeff Bristow
I am trying to get fit and thin so that I can stop being the 'man that keeps getting fatter' and to help get my triglyceride count down to normal levels.
http://blog.jeffbristow.com
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:33
This morning when I woke up my wife had a gift bag for me that she was really excited for me to open.
When I opened the bag there was a pen box in it. I thought "Doesn't she know that I lose pens?" When I opened the box there was no pen, but a pregnancy test showing positive!
So, I am a Daddy!
I then had to head to work since I don't give myself much time from wake up to walking into work.
My wife and I have a lot of thinking and talking to do this evening. We are also expecting to hear from DCF this week to see if we have been approved to adopt, so we need to decide whether we want to continue the adoption process. We were never interested in adoption due to fertility issues, so we may end up with a much larger family by the end of the year. 
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Dave Nicholson
The Master Posts: 2094


Dave Nicholson
I'm basically trying to get in shape and be healthy...
diaryofthefatman.blogspot.com
I like participating in sports but I want to be more competitive. Also I'm with Kevin Spacey from American Beauty - good reason :)
I'm looking to lose about a hundred lbs in the course of a year, and basically to just consistently get better. And I love comments and messages, so keep 'em coming!
I talk about goal setting a lot, how about I actually set some?
Well it's time to revisit goals... I didn't do too well with my end of year plans, but learned some things and changed my plans up a bit as I went along. During the 5-7 weeks of the year, I was able to put on about 8-10lbs of muscle, and stay at the same actual weight. The plan is to start the Strong Lifts 5X5 program to supplement the Couch to 5K program, and that should last the next 8-12 weeks.
I'm updating goals as well. Lowering cholesterol remains a goal, and I'll find out about that at the end of August.
Been bouncing around a bit, but getting a little stricter again and will monitor that over the next 3-4 weeks. I feel poised to really lose some weight again, so I'm looking forward to the healthy eating and additional exercise.

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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:35
Wow, Congratulations!!!! That's awesome, good luck Daddy 
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THE NEW ME
The Master Posts: 2856


THE NEW ME
HIGHEST WEIGHT 240 in 2000-2002 HIGHEST BODY FAT MEASURED-44% AT 170
CHALLENGE 1: SEPT 07-DEC 07 -LOSE 10 POUNDS-158-148- achieved new goal-lose another 10 by Dec 15 not achieved-Dec 15-weight 142.5 (total weight loss during challenge= 15.5 pounds) -RUN A MILE- achieved on-NOV 7 new goal-run 2 miles-surpassed new goal-run 2.5 b/w Nov 7 and Dec 15.-achieved -LOSE 5% BODY FAT-achieved
CHALLENGE 2 DEC 15-MARCH 15
-LOWER BODY FAT by 5% ( not achieved fully but as of 1/08-need to reevaluate-add muscle instead) -RUN 5 MILES-Achieved on 1/11/07 new goal-6 miles by March 15 at 5.0 speed or 5 miles at 5.5(neither achieved and not goals anymore-may try for fun) -LOSE 10 POUNDS -142.5-132.5 (not achieved but very close- 132.6)
6 month progress -lost 25. 4 pounds -lost 9% body fat -ran 0-5 miles
Challenge 3 March 15, 07-June 15 -goals -follow plan by nutritionist and trainer -main goal gain lean mass
Daily goals- -follow meal plan and move every day
Goal of beating personal best- run a marathon
weekly goals -gain muscle to the best of my ability
3 month goals -see above-reestablish every 3 months
12 month goals -maintain all the above goals
ultimate long term goal -be fit, healthy and confident with body

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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:36
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~ Linaeve
Fitness Guru Posts: 311
~ Linaeve
I work for a health care industry. I love tennis and running. I'm engaged to an amazing man, getting married November 1sh 2008. I am excited to lose weight and improve my heart (I have heart disease).
Short term goals: 1) measure my bodyfat % 2) complete 20 lb challenge 3) more consistent workout schedule (DONE) 4) phase from 2% milk down to 1% milk (DONE) 5) lose 30 to 40 lbs by my birthday (May 30th)
Long term goals: 1) Be able to run 3 miles again 2) Play tennis again on a regular basis 3) Reach my goal weight 4) Look great, healthy and confident for my wedding 5) Maintain a healthy lifestyle in order to have a baby
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:42
Congratulations!!! That's so exciting!
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Dean Grimshawe
Fitness Guru Posts: 1178
Dean Grimshawe
I work as a Health and Fitness Coach in England. I am looking to network with dedicated athletes and grow my knowledge in this area. Check out what I do at www.warriorcoaching.co.uk
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:46
I'm really pleased for you Jeff!!
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Cindy N
Fitness Guru Posts: 733
Cindy N
Goals This Week: Watch the Penguins beat the Red Wings in the Stanley Cup Finals!!! Continue getting up early for boot camp Heavy Strength Training 1x/wk Drink at least 1000ml water 5 out of 7 days Avoid crummy foods at least 3 days
Goals Last Week: Watch the Penguins beat the Flyers in the playoffs!!! - COMPLETE!!!!! Continue getting up early for boot camp - COMPLETE, almost didn't make it 5/23 though Do the 1 mile test run in under 10 min. - DONE IN 10:10, close! Heavy Strength Training 1x/wk - Not this week :( Drink at least 1000ml water a day - Only 4 out of 7 days, and still no excuse May Goals: Run whole Race for the Cure 5K - COMPLETE! Boot Camp for 4 weeks starting 5/12 Get out of the "obese" range on the BMI chart (185.5)
Upcoming: Son's graduation in June (lots of family and friends visiting) 10K in September 2008
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 18:58
Congratulations! I'm sure you and your wife will work everything out for the best. I wish her a happy, healthy pregnancy!
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Cardio King
Fitness Guru Posts: 1784
Cardio King
Words to live by: "Now's the time to grab the steering wheel of your life. Delve deep within yourself and take responsibility for your health and behavior. Ask yourself hard questions and face the truth of what needs to be done. Weight loss is not always easy or fair but you are the only one that can lose weight for you. Take a turn for the better!"
Goals: 1) Lose ~45 pounds 2) Work out at least 6 days a week 3) Eat healthier consistently
I will reward myself at the following weights: 240, 235, 230, 225, 220, 215, 205, 200, 195, 190
I will reassess my goals after I have met the above goals.
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 19:02
Amazing news Jeff! Congratulations to you both!
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Brandon B.
traineo Fanatic Posts: 78
Brandon B.
Start Weight: 263.8 Current Weight: 229.6 Goal Weight: 200.0
Start B/F%: 38% Current B/F%: 30% Goal B/F%: 22%
Last Updated: 10/21/08
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 19:36
Your story just made my day. Congrats man.
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suesue t
Fitness Guru Posts: 673
suesue t
The skateboarder is via my 13 year old son. I am very computer challenged. I asked him to find a picture... this is what I got. Very fitting as I am leaping into better shape!!!
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:06
Congratulations!!!! that is so exciting...... I know you have had a rough road these past couple of weeks. 9 months will pass quickly and you will soon have those pitter pattering feet! A newborn at Christmas....... wow!
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Rachael M
The Master Posts: 2299
Rachael M
I am a triathlete trying to lose some weight so I can improve my times. I love traineo and the very motivational people on here.
Basic info: 5'9", 22 years old, mechanical engineer :)
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:18
Congratulations Jeff!!!! That's awesome!!
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Barbara Yero
traineo Newbie Posts: 9
Barbara Yero
My name is Barbie and I'm 25 years old. A great friend of mine introduced me to this site and I'm here to motivate myself and others to stay on track. I have a LONG way to go and need all the motivation/support I can get! by the end of 2008 I will be a hot little thing :)
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:19
Quoting: spaggard Your story just made my day. Congrats man.
me too! congratulations, enjoy the ride 
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Itadaki Mouse
Fitness Guru Posts: 813
Itadaki Mouse
"Now, here, you see, it takes all the running you can do, to keep in the same place. If you want to get somewhere else, you must run at least twice as fast as that."
-- said the White Queen to Alice in Through the Looking Glass
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:47
What? Married people have sex? Mine's broken. Refund!
That was a really sweet way to tell you. Congratulations on the baby and a clever, thoughtful wife!
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Stacy F
Fitness Guru Posts: 336
Stacy F
This member has no personal statement yet!
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 20:57
Goaaaaaaal you finally got one past the goalie, Congrats dude. Nothing better than being a dad.
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Kathy O
traineo Fanatic Posts: 200


Kathy O
I have been working out regularly since Sept 07. I've been here several times in the past BUT this time the change is going to last a LIFETIME!!
I am the mother of a ten year old competitive figure skater (which takes alot of my time). I work fulltime and my hubbie works away. Time is a challenge!!!
I would like to lose 20lbs by July 1.
I resolve to: Short term (by June 1, 2008): 1. Get back on track after my vacation in Cuba (April 7 - 16, 2008) 2. cardio 5x/week including trying to get back to running if my achillis tendon will ever heal! 3. weight train 3-4 x per week 4. Drink 64 oz water per day (this will be the biggest challenge!) 5. Obtain a Normal BMI (154 lb)!
Midterm Goals (by July 1, 2008): 1. Continue with short term 2. Try to increase mileage to run a 10 km race around Canada Day (July 1, 2008) 3. Try to find a 10 km race to run between June 15 - July 15, 2008 4. Obtain goal weight (currently set at 150 lb but maybe 144 lb) - BMI around 23 5. Continue weight training
Long term (By March 31, 2009): 1. To still be at this in 12 months time (the exercise and health habits not the weight loss part!) 2. To maintain a BMI of around 23! 3. To run a half marathon...if all works out...Myrtle Beach Half Marathon Feb 2009

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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 21:47
Been there and after all that waiting I really appreciate what you are feeling...It is a feeling beyond description. Congratulations!
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Sher S
Fitness Guru Posts: 522
Sher S
In one word - I am an Unquenchable Optimistic!!
Im a phd student and have been traineoing for the past 1 year! I am in love with HIIT, dark chocolate, green tea and falling in love with more through this site!
Current goal- Simply workout 5 days a week.
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 22:03
Congrats Jeff...best wishes to you and your FAMILY 
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Angie H
Fitness Guru Posts: 718
Angie H
I am using the Zone way of eating (www.drsears.com) to attain my target and increase my wellness.
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 22:04
Wow, I hope you and your wife have a healthy, happy pregnancy and a bouncing baby in 9 months! Congratulations!!!!
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Sven Wii
traineo Regular Posts: 34
Sven Wii
27yrs student
the plan: - couch to triathlon in 4 monthes. - german sports sign in 2008 event happen on July 5th
Looking for 1-3 motivator(s)
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 00:18
What a nice gift bag, grats man
all the best to you three ^^
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Tara C
traineo Regular Posts: 60
Tara C
I am a huge nerd! I love computers, my wii, the xbox and action movies. Battlestar Galactica is my favourite tv show. I obsess about music and love bands like Muse, NIN, A Perfect Circle, Metric and The Bravery. I love to talk, and hopefully this website will help keep me motivated!
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 00:40
Babies!! Congratulations!
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Richie Anderson
traineo Fanatic Posts: 177
Richie Anderson
I'm 26 years old, I have a wonderful wife and a beautiful daughter.
I graduated from US Air Force basic training and am now at tech school. I will be doing PT 3 times a week and working out in the gym 3 days as well.
My goal is to maintain my weight while burning more fat and gaining strength.
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 02:10
Awesome! Congrats! You'll love being a daddy, its great!
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Ara Bruno
Fitness Guru Posts: 774
Ara Bruno
Not much to say, I like playing video games and watching/playing sports. I work as a web developer for a small company.
I think when I get into shape I want to become a volunteer firefighter.
Goal: Lose 35lbs before Cardio King
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 02:23
Congrats man I am really really happy for you. I was worried about you and your wife and the adoption process. This was a good surprise for you.
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Tim Wilson
Fitness Guru Posts: 650


Tim Wilson
I have started two new blogs, one to follow my running and a Quest to a Marathon at blog.262quest.com and one to follow my weight loss at blog.2big.org, please check them out.
I am an IT professional / Developer which means I sit in front of a computer most of the day. This means very little exercise and plenty of time to eat.
I decided at the first of the year that I was going to lose weight. I started by changing my eating habits and started walking.
I did so for about a month and then added some weight lifting and started to run a little bit.
I have so far lost 29 lbs in just over 3 months and would like to lose just over another 50 lbs by the end of the year.
I have started running quite a bit more and am training to run the Peachtree Road Race in Atlanta on July 4th (10k)
I need all the encouragement I can get because to do this I am getting up every morning during the week at 4:30 to go running. With a wife and kids this is really the only time that I can consistently do what I need to do.
I am driven, but at times get a bit discouraged because I don't have anybody to work out with or run with.
All in All, I know I can do it, I just have to remember that when I don't do so well, it is in the past and what matters is going forward.
A more up to date thread on me: http://www.traineo.com/14_2366_0.html

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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 02:52
Congrats! That is awesome news! I bet you are on cloud 9 right now!
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tHe SbAsTiAn pRoJeCt
traineo Fanatic Posts: 134
tHe SbAsTiAn pRoJeCt
I'm just an average guy who wants to live a healthy lifestyle and lose a few pounds along the way. My goal is to weigh at 200 lbs and maintain that weight (with my build i can't go under !). Traineo is a great place if you're motivated and i am.
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 05:00
WOW .. congratulations jeff, that's the best news you could ever have !!! trust you'll love being a dad.. there's something so rewarding...anyways you'll see. Congratultions to your wife-girlfriend too !
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tex girlee
traineo Fanatic Posts: 169
tex girlee
Hey Im 19 and a college student and I live in Texas. My biggest goal is to lose forty lbs, and to tone legs and arms. I love to lift weights, and I uh...tolerate running.:)
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 05:35
omg! conratulations! how exciting. i wish you the best of luck. that really just put a smile on my face for some reason! ;)
tex
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Samantha Cordell
Fitness Guru Posts: 338
Samantha Cordell
Success is not a race, be patient. Success leads to success. Success is always a work in progress. Success doesn't come to you--you go to it. Success is a journey, not a destination. Focus on the process. Some people dream about success... while others wake up and work hard at it. Success is achieved and maintained by those who try-and keep trying. Everyday is a good day to SUCCEED! If at first you don't succeed-try, try again
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 06:23
WOW big CONGRATS to you and your wife Jeff....how exciting~~~!!!
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Colin Barnes
Fitness Guru Posts: 216
Colin Barnes
I'm aiming to lose 50lb and have a bodfat percentage of 25% by september.
Update: I have 29lb to lose, and my BF% is 36% (down from 42).
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 12:42
he shoots, he scores! Well done fella.
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Jeff Bristow
Fitness Guru Posts: 280
Jeff Bristow
I am trying to get fit and thin so that I can stop being the 'man that keeps getting fatter' and to help get my triglyceride count down to normal levels.
http://blog.jeffbristow.com
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 13:29
Thanks everyone. I am really excited right now. Our parents are really excited too!
We are a bit divided now as to if we should proceed with adopting. My wife's family doesn't want us to adopt now, but my family is really excited for us to follow through with adopting. And I am leaning towards adopting still and my wife just isn't sure. So, we still need to figure out the adoption stuff.
Thanks again everyone. 
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Angie H
Fitness Guru Posts: 718
Angie H
I am using the Zone way of eating (www.drsears.com) to attain my target and increase my wellness.
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# Posted: 21 Mar 2008 14:14
Jeff, the pregnancy obviously will put a monkey wrench in ANY plans. Personally, I could see how one might become a bit overwhelmed if a baby AND an adopted child come into your life at the same time. Give yourself some breathing room and the option to make a decision after things have calmed down a bit.
And, I wouldn't give a second's thought to what parents might say. It's your and your wife's decision, not theirs!
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suesue t
Fitness Guru Posts: 673
suesue t
The skateboarder is via my 13 year old son. I am very computer challenged. I asked him to find a picture... this is what I got. Very fitting as I am leaping into better shape!!!
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# Posted: 22 Mar 2008 03:01
Quoting: jeffbristow So, we still need to figure out the adoption stuff.
The adoption agency you are working with might have a policy and take the decision out of your hands. Your social worker might be really helpful too! Maybe you could just be placed "inactive", but not forgo all the hard work you have put into the process. ..... that way, you can put off the stress of the "any day a phone call could come"
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Jeff Bristow
Fitness Guru Posts: 280
Jeff Bristow
I am trying to get fit and thin so that I can stop being the 'man that keeps getting fatter' and to help get my triglyceride count down to normal levels.
http://blog.jeffbristow.com
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 18:32 - Edited by: jeffbristow
Today the State of Florida essentially requested an extension to process our adoption application since they exceeded their legal time frame to let us know. So we have to wait another 16 days at a minimum to find out about that.
I expected this set back to happen. Working with the State has been this way. And this isn't all bad since this will give us some more time to think about what we would like to do. The approval of our home study simply makes us eligible to adopt a child that is in the custody of the State of Florida and doesn't actually place a child with us, so once we are approved we will be in a better position to see if the children we are hoping to adopt will be available which will help guide our decision.
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Ara Bruno
Fitness Guru Posts: 774
Ara Bruno
Not much to say, I like playing video games and watching/playing sports. I work as a web developer for a small company.
I think when I get into shape I want to become a volunteer firefighter.
Goal: Lose 35lbs before Cardio King
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 19:05
Good luck on your decision Jeff!
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