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Richard H.
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 14:53


I wanted to start this thread for those that need to vent or blow off some steam. I find it very helpful to vent a little and then get back on track.

This thread is not meant to fix anything -- just get things off your chest.


Ms. M.
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 14:57


Hi Richard, nice idea!!!

I can't believe that I have cut out junk food and exercised every single day for a month now and I still haven't lost any weight or body fat or inches!!!!!

So annoying... I guess it takes a bit longer... gggrrrrrr....

Sigh... that helped a bit, thanks!!!


Dean Grimshawe
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 14:57


It pisses me off how people start a thread that they expect everybody else to contribute to but can't be arsed to add anything to themselves!!

What a joke!! Do they expect us to make up all the content for them?? For pete's sake!!!


Dave Nicholson
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 14:58


good. i feel like a bag full of a$$holes... i'm hung over, smell like booze and smoke... i left my house this morning and there was crap all over i'll have to clean up later... blah.


Ms. M.
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 15:02


Dean, are you being ironic on purpose??? If so, lol


Dean Grimshawe
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 15:07


Quoting: rosanne
Dean, are you being ironic on purpose??? If so, lol


Yes, it was a bit tongue in cheek, ha ha.

For some reasons I feel quite playful on a Friday and get mischeivous. Don't have a lot to whinge about so I thought I'd have some fun.


Lilly K
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 17:09


can I bitch about traineo? b/c as much as I love this place, it pisses me off just about as much as it makes me happy...then again, maybe I'm just grumpy b/c I didn't get any this morning?

in either case, traineo!!

ok, I feel better now


Angie Hudson
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 18:42 - Edited by: fauxvirgo


My mom and her estranged husband (long story) are coming to visit me, and I have to deal with cigarette smoke all weekend!


Richard H.
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 19:38


Why the #*!! isn't there anytime to do anything??? It seems like my schedule gets more and more filled up -- I need a @#$%-ing vacation! (I don't even have enough time to watch a single TV program anymore.)

Okay... I feel better now.


Stacy F
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 19:57


Nice thread Richard......I feel they need to second the time thing..Can I get more time someplace...just an extra hour lets change to 25 hell 30 hour days so I can get a few more things done.....


Stacy F
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 19:59


Quoting: lillyk
then again, maybe I'm just grumpy b/c I didn't get any this morning?


Meaning your 5 mile run right .....


Clifford Chinn
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 20:07


People on the internet being wrong bugs me! j/k

Actually though, it drives me crazy when someone (online or otherwise) asks a question when they aren't willing to be open minded about the answer, then when people give them the answer they don't want they get all ornery and start adamantly defending their position and acting like we're a bunch of jerks for not agreeing with them in the first place.

Err... I guess I could have just said passive-aggressive people. Be one or the other, dont' half-ass them both!


Spyke M
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 20:28


I fudging hate the fact that there are certain shiddy forums where some a$$wipes can't handle the fact that I sometimes swear

I funking hate that chit, having to watch my mothahonkin language all the time

Wish I could type what I REALLY mean lol


Richard H.
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 20:48


Has anyone ever experienced this:

I sometimes feel that I'm the only one that keeps a relationship afloat... no, not an intimate one, just with friends. I feel that I'm the only one going up and beyond to organize things, contact them to see how they are, etc. -- and frankly, sometimes I hate it! Are my friends too busy to call or contact me w/o asking me for something?! My family can sometimes get like that, (siblings especially -- now I know how my parents feel.)

I think it's sad... maybe they aren't true friends after all. I don't know, maybe I'm just selfish...


Cindy N
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 21:07


Quoting: rharpe
I need a @#$%-ing vacation!


I am going on vacation, and I'm sick of having to prepare and pack for everyone else. Plus, I had to work twice as hard this week to prepare to take a vacation, knowing I'm still going to have twice the work waiting for me when I get back. It's almost not worth it.


Lilly K
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 21:09


That happens to me, Richard. Sometimes I feel as though if I didn't make any effort, I wouldn't have any contact w/anyone at all. And I've cut off contact w/others and have gone YEARS w/o speaking to them b/c of it. It all boils down to whether the relationship is worth the effort. But, I hear you...especially when they only contact you b/c they want something. That really sucks and makes you feel like crap *hugs* sorry you're experiencing that...


Angie Hudson
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 21:28


Quoting: spyke
I fudging hate the fact that there are certain shiddy forums where some a$$wipes can't handle the fact that I sometimes swear

I funking hate that chit, having to watch my mothahonkin language all the time

Wish I could type what I REALLY mean lol



I LOVE IT!!!


Richard H.
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# Posted: 2 May 2008 21:56


Quoting: lillyk
That happens to me, Richard. Sometimes I feel as though if I didn't make any effort, I wouldn't have any contact w/anyone at all. And I've cut off contact w/others and have gone YEARS w/o speaking to them b/c of it. It all boils down to whether the relationship is worth the effort. But, I hear you...especially when they only contact you b/c they want something. That really sucks and makes you feel like crap *hugs* sorry you're experiencing that...

I guess life has caught up with everyone. Having kids, jobs, responsibilities, etc.... but once in a while -- it would be nice to get together and do something!


Cynthia P
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# Posted: 3 May 2008 01:22 - Edited by: graycyn


OK... I had to order ANOTHER DAMN 2X SIZED SWIMSUIT yesterday.

I'm just not quite there to being 1X. Losing inches... but slowly. GRRRRR!


~ Linaeve
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# Posted: 3 May 2008 02:38


Good thread.. lets see what do I want to vent about today?... hrm....

Oh, ok.. I know.. I HATE that my doctor doesn't believe that I am working out and eating right and INSISTS that I am doing something wrong to not be able to lose weight... I am willing to accept ideas, suggestions as to other things I should try but hearing my PCP say "Well OBVIOUSLY you are STILL eating too much and are not working out enough"... Well OBVIOUSLY nothing! I understand some people aren't honest about this stuff but it's getting rediculous.

Also.. today to make things worse a doctor said "So.. how far can you walk before getting tired? 10 feet? 50 feet?" I was so offended... I just responded "I'm really not sure.. I run for 20 minutes fine and Jog quite a bit... I go up and down 6 flights of stairs 3 to 4 times a day... So I THINK i can handle 10 to 50 feet alright"... not exactly a compliment...

ok I do feel better now too.


Richard H.
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# Posted: 3 May 2008 02:53


I hate having junk food in the house! (Why do we continue to buy this crap!?) It makes life all the worse for me when I get in a depressed state like this... I can see some bad numbers for next weeks weigh-in!

Oh hum...


Cynthia P
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# Posted: 3 May 2008 03:07


Hey Richard... it's still OK to suck it up and throw the junk out! Or give it away to someone! Hard to do, but it could change things around.

At least think about it. Sometimes I have to eat some, realize how crappy it makes me start to feel and then I toss whatever is left.

Cynthia


Cynthia P
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# Posted: 3 May 2008 03:11


Quoting: Linaeve
Oh, ok.. I know.. I HATE that my doctor doesn't believe that I am working out and eating right and INSISTS that I am doing something wrong to not be able to lose weight... I am willing to accept ideas, suggestions as to other things I should try but hearing my PCP say "Well OBVIOUSLY you are STILL eating too much and are not working out enough"... Well OBVIOUSLY nothing! I understand some people aren't honest about this stuff but it's getting rediculous.


Doctors can be a pain. Every time a doctor sees me, I just know they look at me and assume "fat person", probably diabetic, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, etc, etc, etc... while in fact, I have NONE of those problems and never have had those issues. And then, when I mention things like my shoulder that bugs me, they don't manage to SEE that I can't lift the one arm as high as the other. Those things, the things that really impact my life, apparently aren't important enough to do anything about. GROWL!

I'm beginning to think you need another doctor!


Jackie Z
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 19:49


Venting! My friends are all wrapping up their terms and heading home while I have another month of projects and finals (damned trimesters). I have an exam on tuesday and on thursday and no time to sleep. I know I'll snack bc when I get less than 4 hours I just can't make it through the day on my usual amount of meals/calories. I hate not having enough time!!! Just give me 24 hours to crash and get over my cold and catch up on the past 3 weeks of not enough sleep and I'll be good to go through finals but that won't happen until June 3rd bc we never have downtime.

ok I feel slightly better and am going back to my chemistry.


tHe SbAsTiAn pRoJeCt
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 13:47


ok it's my turn to vent !! i don't understand why I'm not losing more weight .. i eat healthy (and believe me ..there's no room for improvement here !!!) i work out regularly (everyday i do at least 2 sets of 20 pushups), i've been doing that for the last 2 months and the result is that i lost 10 lbs ....come on ..it's getting ridiculous if i eat more salad i'll turn into a rabbit ! I DO understand that i don't have a lot to lose (20 lbs) but i am overweight...
anyways it felt good thx
gotta go back to my fruits now!
good luck everyone


Rachael McCarty
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 14:05


I slept horribly last night. Well, let me re-phrase, I slept fine, but I dreamed like a mad woman. I've been in a daze trying to sort things out this morning. I think I may need to go back to a doctor for this. It's just the one that I went to the 1st time appeared to not be able to care less about me or my sleep condition, and instead just wrote me a prescription that I threw away because I don't like the idea of becoming dependent on a drug for sleep.

My dreams are so real that I wake up and can't shake the feeling of guilt (did something bad in the dream), horror (something terrible happened in the dream), sadness, panic, ect.


Stephanie Q
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 14:22


Time to vent some steam...
OK... this 2 weeks I have 4 exams and 2 papers. Yes, it will be studying like crazy. And then on top of that, review sessions and this friend that keeps bugging me to play the piano to accompany her singing.
Well, first hurdle is here... today is my driving test and the car I am using has a mirror that could potentially drop off anytime. The owner's friend borrowed it and hit the mirror... I hope it won't affect my driving test. And that friend, a guy, was out till 3am, with the car and had 2 girls in his backseat. Now that sounds a little sketchy...


Richard H.
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 15:25


I totally cheated on my diet -- the WHOLE weekend! I did not exercise at all -- too depressed.

This week is time for change though -- I need to get out of the rut!


Cardio King
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 18:13


UGH!!!

Fingers furniture is full of crap. If your apartment complex sends them a letter saying you're a resident, that should be enough. They definitely shouldn't hold the furniture until you furnish a copy of the lease! STUPID SUCKAS!!! If I'm paying $1,000 for a couch, you should ship it wherever the hell I want dammit!!!

FINGERS!


Stand Up Bean
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 18:39


the sbastian project.

you might want to do more cardio exercise. push-ups aren't much of a fat burner.

there are lots of better suggestions out there, but i think that's a great place to start.


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